Saturday, August 22, 2009

Life Changes in a Flash

This has been a rough summer for our family. Several of us had a virus that lasted three weeks for me. I haven't felt real good all summer and about two weeks ago I went to the emergency room with congestive heart failure. I had gained a lot of weight and most of it was fluid. This makes it very difficult for my heart to work and it also weakens it. I spent three days in the hospital and came home feeling no better. I have lost twenty pounds of fluid and am beginning to feel better.

Last Saturday night I was watching TV when the phone rang. Ed answered it and I could tell it was not a good call. It seems about 2:00 that afternoon Mariah had been kicked in the chest by a horse. This is the second time she has been kicked. She had been taken to Macon by ambulance and was at Children's Hospital. She had a laceration to the spleen and they were watching it for bleeding. She spent three days in the hospital and now they are having to keep her quiet while it heals. This is not an easy task for any child but especially Mariah. She is busy playing outside all the time.

As I think about all that has happened, I am reminded how precious life is and how precious our families are. I feel so blessed to have so many grandchildren and wish I could spend more time with them. I enjoy telling them stories of the past and I hope they pass these stories down to their children and grandchildren. My hearts desire is to make good memories for my grandchildren. I wish the little ones could have known the active, busy grandma that the older ones remember. My goal is to try and get in better shape so I will have time with the little ones too.

I am so proud of the way our girls are raising their children. Tonight we ate out and I cringed as I watched a little baby (About 8 or 9 months) eating off his mothers plate and drinking her coke. My girls work hard to feed their kids in a healthy way. I hope they keep these habits as they get older so they can have long, healthy lives.

I do't know what the future holds but I do know Who holds the future. Each of you that reads this let your family know how much you love them. Life is short.

3 comments:

Lydia Caroline said...
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Abigail and Lydia said...

Hi Grandma-
that was a very sweet post. You do so much for us! I can't wait to see you!

Love you-
Lydia

P.S that was me that deleted the comment above, I was signed in with the wrong account.

Angela said...

Thanks for visiting my blog! I just tried to do a look up of your GGF James Snyder on www.wvculture.org/vrr for some reason it is not working for me so I wasn't able to do it right now. You might want to give it a try. It might work for you. What I would do is go to www.wvculture.org/vrr and do a birth and death and even a marriage lookup on the names that you do know. From there you can find out their parents names or spouses names and information like that. You can also go to www.rootsweb.ancestry.com to see if there is anyone else who is researching your family line. Now, I don't pay to join any of these websites to find my information. I have a few good sites to use for look ups on my sidebar on my blog that may be helpful. I also like to google a persons name like James Snyder family tree from wv. That will bring up someone's page if someone is working on it and has any information up. I don't know what county Sandstone is in but sometimes different counties has up some information about people from their counties like Jackson County does. It's a big Treasure Hunt looking for one's ancestors! lol I have been doing it for years and I still haven't gotten past my great grand parents on one side. And I just recently got a picture of my own grandfather who passed away when I was a baby.

I hope you are feeling better! I for some reason or another will gain around 10 pounds a month or more from water and I just can't seem to get it off.

Good luck with your search and do let me know if you find anything.

Hugs,
Angela